When my son was growing up I did what any single mom might
do…I let him join the Scouts. I wanted strong male role models for him and
thought participating in Scout activities would help him safely explore the
world around him. I still remember going to our first roundup meeting when he
was in first grade. His group was called the Tiger Cubs at that age and imagine
my surprise when my son decided to nominate ME as their den leader! I had never
done anything like that before in my life, but with my son’s encouragement I
decided to jump in with both feet and enjoy the ride.
While it was a little scary at first leaping into the
unknown. I soon discovered not only were there others just starting out like
myself, but also plenty of people along the way who were eager to show me the
ropes. Soon I felt like an old pro at this scouting thing. I also learned some
valuable lessons along the way…
HAVE FUN
I quickly realized the eight boys
in my den just wanted to have fun. Whether it was cleaning up the local park or
working on birdhouses at the local Home Depot, as long as they were enjoying
themselves it was worth their effort to show up for the meeting.
BE PREPARED
Like
the Boy Scout motto, I tried to always be prepared for each den meeting. I
would do my research on the topic for that week, make sure I had everything I
needed to have a successful night, and went into each meeting with the right
mindset, even if that meant leaving the day’s frustrations at the door. Those
children came to me with high expectations and they deserved the best of myself
I could give them.
ASK FOR HELP
There
were some times when I couldn’t run the meeting all on my own. The plans for
the night required more than I could handle and I would ask for assistance from
another parent. I’m a fiercely independent person but not dumb enough to think
I can always do everything on my own so I wasn’t too proud to ask for help when
I needed it.
BE COURTEOUS
In
Scouting…as well as martial arts…you are expected to be courteous at all times.
The world can be an ugly place to live in, but you can always be the one to
shine a little kindness on someone else along the way. No matter where we went,
I always expected my scouts to be remembered for their kindness and willingness
to assist others in any way they could…even if to just say thank you!
My son had a good time during his years in the Scouts. He
moved up in rank from Tiger Cub to Wolf, Bear, and Webelo before graduating
into Boy Scouts where he went on to become an Eagle Scout at age sixteen. At
his Eagle Scout ceremony, I was given a badge of honor as well for taking the
journey with him. At the time I didn’t give much thought to all that I had
learned during my scouting days but now I can look back and realize I was also
being prepared for becoming a published author.
Outside of training and teaching TaeKwonDo, returning to my
writing after a twenty-year hiatus is the most fun I’ve had in a long time. I
can’t imagine my life without my writing now and look forward to what the next
twenty years might bring. My time in the Scouts as Den Leader and then Trainer
where I taught the incoming parents how to become the next Den Leaders prepared
me for being highly organized.
With the upcoming release of my debut picture book, THE
STORY CATCHER, there are certain things that have to happen in a timely manner
in order to increase the chances of a successful book run. I’m currently
working with my publisher, Anaiah Press, and my publicist to make sure all my
ducks are lined up and ready to go come next January. I’m also reaching out to
the many, many people I have met along the way these past four years and
thanking them for all their love and support. I did not travel this path to publication
alone and I would be remiss if I didn’t show my appreciation for all the
kindness shown to me along the way.
Beginning next week I will be talking about what
specifically Anaiah Press and I have been doing to get ready for my book
release. As a new author I’m a little surprised to learn of all the “behind the
scenes” work needed done before the first book rolls off the presses. It’s
exciting and a little scary for an introverted spirit like myself but just like during my scouting days, I’m
planning to jump in with both feet and enjoy the ride!
I never thought about scouting this way, but you are so right! I was Girl Scout, First Class (highest rank) and loved every minute of it too. Congratulations to you and your son... and your new picture book!
ReplyDeleteHi Juliana! Thank you for your kind words. I enjoyed my son's journey to Eagle Scout...I was never in the Girl Scouts so I took full advantage of all the Scout activities I provided for my den...;~)
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